Srir a cuppa

Seniors Rights Victoria (SRV) putting a spotlight on grandparents on World Elder Abuse Awareness Day

SRV holds ‘Stir A Cuppa with Seniors’ event in Melbourne

As part of World Elder Abuse Day (15th June), Seniors Rights Victoria (SRV), a key program of Council on the Ageing (COTA) Victoria, will host their annual event, ‘Stir A Cuppa with Seniors,’ highlighting the critical role of grandparents in families.

The afternoon tea will boast a panel discussion facilitated by Gerard Mansour, Commissioner for Senior Victorians and Ambassador for Elder Abuse Prevention, as well as guest speaker Dr Marlene Krasovitsky, Co-chair and Director of EveryAGE Counts campaign.

The discussion will explore how intergenerational relationships can positively impact young people’s health and well-being from childhood to adulthood.

As part of the World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD) event, SRV will also release a new resource specifically for grandparents, providing valuable information on the importance of grandparents in family life and offering suggestions for ways in which challenges faced by grandparents can be resolved.

According to Dr Rebecca Edwards, Manager and Principal Lawyer of Seniors Rights Victoria, the brochure is aimed at grandparents who may be facing personal challenges and provides recommended strategies to assist in overcoming these obstacles.

‘SRV has seen situations where grandparents may be denied contact with their grandchildren due to complex family dynamics, family disputes, custody issues, illness, divorce or separation.  Grandparents may also feel pressured to provide financial or other support for their grandchildren, as well as being concerned about their grandchildren’s safety in the face of family violence,’ Dr Edwards said.

‘Senior Rights Victoria wanted to provide the information, referrals and advice needed if grandparents are faced with these challenges in an easy to access format.

‘Estrangement from grandchildren is often a complex situation, mixed with high levels of emotion and anxiety. 

‘Although it’s not always possible,  SRV aims to assist grandparents to maintain a connection with their grandchildren and have a sense of hope that a positive outcome may prevail.

Dr Edwards says that the ‘Stir A Cuppa with Seniors’ has resonated well with older Victorians and is pleased that in 2022, SRV is able to host the event face to face  – a first in two years.

‘SRV’s ‘Stir A Cuppa with Seniors; on World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, reflects the simplicity of how a cuppa can be a catalyst for compassion, connection and conversation.’

Event details:

Date:                    Wednesday 15th June 2022

Time:                   2:00pm – 4:00pm

Location:            City of Melbourne Bowls Club in the Flagstaff Gardens

To register: or 9655 2129

To seek advice or support contact SRV Helpline on 1300 368 821 or go to



May 16 2018

World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD) is commemorated each year on 15 June to highlight one of the worst manifestations of ageism and inequality in our society, elder abuse.

Elder abuse is any act which causes harm to an older person and is carried out by someone they know and trust such as a family member or friend. The abuse may be physical, social, financial, psychological or sexual and can include mistreatment and neglect.

WEAAD was officially recognised by the United Nations General Assembly in December 2011, following a request by the International Network for the Prevention of Elder Abuse (INPEA), who first established the commemoration in June 2006.

This year (the name of organisation) will be hosting a (name/type of event) on (day, date) to raise awareness about elder abuse.

(Organisation name), (Title of organiser/spokesperson), (Name of spokesperson), said it was important to raise awareness about elder abuse as it can be experienced by older people with little recognition or response.

“This is a social issue which affects the health, well-being, independence and human rights of millions of older people around the world, and an issue which deserves the attention of all in the community, including this community,” (name of spokesperson) said.

According to the World Health Organisation, prevalence rates or estimates exist only in selected developed countries – ranging from 1 to 10 per cent. Although the extent of elder mistreatment is unknown, its social and moral significance is obvious.

In most cases elder abuse is an intergenerational form of family violence. In 2016-17, people aged 60 years or over made up just over 5,400 of the family members affected in family violence incidents recorded by Victoria Police (Crime Statistics Agency).

Seniors Rights Victoria Manager Jenny Blakey said there was a growing acknowledgement of elder abuse as a form of family violence but still a big disconnect when it came to the highest incidence of abuse – financial – which accounts for 75 per cent of abuse cases managed by the state-wide elder abuse support service.

“Just as respectful relationships within families help prevent family violence, respect for older family members is a primary protection against elder abuse, particularly when it comes to a family’s financial arrangements,” Ms Blakey said.

“Older people are essential in the fabric of our society. It’s time for us to acknowledge their importance and recognise they are entitled to the respect of their communities and especially their families. There is no excuse for elder abuse.”

Ms Blakey said the warning signs of elder abuse may include an older person seeming fearful, anxious or isolated. There may be injuries, or an absence of personal care. Disappearance of possessions, unexplained financial transactions, and changes to a will, property title or other documents are also of concern. While the mistreatment of an older person may be carried out by one family member, it is often other family members who are best placed to support their parent or grandparent against the abuse, provided they recognise what is happening. Like other forms of family violence, most elder abuse occurs behind closed doors, so it is important for loved ones to watch out for signs, listen and offer help.

Older people can reduce the risk of elder abuse by making sure their financial, medical, legal and other affairs are clearly stated and recorded in a family. Older people must also be empowered to recognise the signs of elder abuse and encouraged to state when they are not comfortable with an arrangement. Older Victorians experiencing elder abuse, or family members concerned about an older person, can get help by calling Seniors Rights Victoria on 1300 368 821 Monday to Friday, from 10 am to 5 pm. The website for more information is


For more information or interviews please contact (insert organisation contact name and mobile) or Seniors Rights Victoria’s Media and Communications Adviser Amanda Kunkler on 0407 329 055.

Download WEAAD Media Release 2018